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Conversation Power by Dr.James Van Fleet

One of the major problems of opening a conversation is that many people can't get beyond "How are you?" How is the wife? How is business? Beautiful weather we're having, isn't it ? So let me ask you now, " Do you feel at a loss about what to say or how to act when you meet a stranger? Do you want to hold the upper hand in the conversation, so you can get your own way but, you don't really know how or where to begin, perhaps you need to gain power over others so, you can control the person's attitudes and actions the first time you meet but, you don't know how.

Now, you will know how to do that, and much more with "Conversation Power"; communication skills for business and personal success by Dr.James Van Fleet.

In today's world, just being good at a job isn't enough, you need to communicate ideas, interact with people in different business situations, speak in public perhaps, and persuade your superiors. As a matter of fact, most of your day is spent in oral communication. It makes sense, therefore, to hone your conversation skills, and use them to your best advantage. James Van Fleet has spent a lifetime mastering the language of success. He has enjoyed an extinguished career in a wide field of experience: from the United States' Army and chiropractic medicine, to management consulting, and motivational speaking, a prolific author. He's considered an expert on applied psychology, which forms the basis of his thirteen published books.

Now you will be able to learn his proven practical principles of people power and self expression in this information packed program.

''If you want to become highly successful in business or industry, you must know how to control and direct people's actions by your orders and commands. Since you can't use force to control people, you must learn how to use techniques that will command both respect and obedience.''

And the techniques you will learn aren't just limited to the business world, you will be able to extend the communication expertise you enjoy professionally to your home and personal life, as well. Exact phrases, simple guidelines, practical tips and examples will show you how to relate to your family and friends.

Whether you need to gain information, or just to get better service, one thing is certain: you will never be at a loss for the right word again. And now, Name of the publisher, is pleased to present '' Conversation Power, communication skills for business and personal success.

Many years ago, the American philosopher George Herbet Bomber observed that he who can explain himself can command what he wants, he who cannot is left in poverty. After more than thirty years as a consultant and business management in human relations, I found that Bomber's comment has stood the test of time.

Conversation, the act of explaining yourself, is your principle mode of communication with other people. No other skill is anywhere near is important to a successful business career, a rewarding social life, or a happy home, for it is by what you say, and we'll also extent how you say it, that you  impress others either as a strong, assertive personality, or else a weak one.

A person's success depend as much on the ability to talk as it does on the professional and technical know-how to do the job. All of the things being equal, advancement and promotion will invariably go to the person who has mastered the art of self expression, both in speaking and writing. While his colleague who has given little or no importance to what can be achieved with the use of language will me marked for mediocrity or failure.

The famous British State's man of the nineteenth century, Disraeli, summed up this idea concisely when he said: ''Men govern with words.'' Perhaps you want to change your spouse's mind about what kind of car to buy.

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